{"id":155537,"date":"2020-09-18T11:51:15","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T09:51:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tetu.com\/?p=155537"},"modified":"2020-09-18T11:51:15","modified_gmt":"2020-09-18T09:51:15","slug":"lex-footballeur-jake-bain-revient-sur-les-consequences-de-son-coming-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tetu.com\/2020\/09\/18\/lex-footballeur-jake-bain-revient-sur-les-consequences-de-son-coming-out\/","title":{"rendered":"L'ex-footballeur Jake Bain revient sur les cons\u00e9quences de son coming out"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>\u00c0 18 ans, Jake Bain fut le premier joueur de football en <em>Division I<\/em> \u00e0 assumer ouvertement son homosexualit\u00e9. Deux ans plus tard, il revient sur son coming out, un tournant d\u00e9cisif dans sa vie.<\/h2><div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1621434409290-0\" class=\"ad-slot u-justify-content-center u-margin-b-3\" style=\"display:flex\">\n  <script>\n    googletag.cmd.push(function() { googletag.display('div-gpt-ad-1621434409290-0'); });\n  <\/script>\n<\/div>\n\n<p>Le coming out peut changer une vie. C'est en tout cas ce que semble soutenir Jake Bain dans une r\u00e9cente interview pour <a href=\"https:\/\/www.menshealth.com\/trending-news\/a33984367\/jake-bain-football-gay-pansexual-d1-athlete\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Men's Health<\/em><\/a>. Apr\u00e8s avoir r\u00e9v\u00e9l\u00e9 son homosexualit\u00e9 durant son ann\u00e9e de premi\u00e8re au lyc\u00e9e, ce jeune footballeur du Missouri rejoint l'Universit\u00e9 d'\u00c9tat d'Indiana, o\u00f9 il devient alors le premier footballeur en Division I \u2013 soit le plus haut niveau de sport universitaire \u2013 \u00e0 \u00eatre ouvertement gay. Mais en 2019, il laisse derri\u00e8re lui le ballon rond et change de facult\u00e9. Un choix qu'il ne regrette pas. Ou, du moins, pas tout \u00e0 fait.<\/p>\n<p><em>\"Le football me manque clairement de temps en temps,<\/em> confie-t-il au m\u00e9dia sportif.<em> Je me sens plus apais\u00e9 et je suis beaucoup plus heureux que ce que j'\u00e9tais un an en arri\u00e8re\"<\/em>. Deux raisons le poussent \u00e0 mettre sa pratique du football entre parenth\u00e8ses : la perte d'un ami d'enfance et le fait qu'il soit encore en plein questionnement sur sa sexualit\u00e9.<em> \"J'avais besoin de prendre du recul, de trouver un peu de stabilit\u00e9 et de cerner exactement ce que j'avais envie de faire\"<\/em>, dit-il.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"body-text\">Red\u00e9finir son orientation<\/h3>\n<p>Sa remise en question presque totale conduit Jake Bain \u00e0 reconsid\u00e9rer sa propre orientation amoureuse. En juin dernier, l'ex-footballeur profite alors du Mois des Fiert\u00e9s pour accomplir un deuxi\u00e8me coming out.<em> \"Apr\u00e8s y avoir beaucoup pens\u00e9, j'ai d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de partager avec vous le fait que je suis pansexuel,<\/em> \u00e9crit-il \u00e0 ses abonn\u00e9s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/By050_Oh2yf\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">sur Instagram<\/a>.<em> J'ai r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que le genre ne rentre pas en compte lorsque quelqu'un m'attire. Pour moi, l'amour est quelque chose de plus profond que le genre qu'on nous assigne \u00e0 la naissance\"<\/em>. Et ce n'est pas le seul changement qu'il effectue.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CFAOHH5BiQH\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"12\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\">Voir cette publication sur Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;\"><a style=\"color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CFAOHH5BiQH\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\"We are not what other people say we are. We are who we know ourselves to be, and we are what we love. That's okay.\" \u2014 Laverne Cox<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\">Une publication partag\u00e9e par <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/jake.bain\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Jake Bain<\/a> (@jake.bain) le <time style=\"font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px;\" datetime=\"2020-09-11T16:45:45+00:00\">11 Sept. 2020 \u00e0 9\u00a0:45 PDT<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>D\u00e9sormais \u00e9tudiant \u00e0 l'Universit\u00e9 d'\u00c9tat de Caroline du Nord, le jeune sportif esp\u00e8re devenir psychologue du sport. En effet, motiv\u00e9 de par son propre parcours pas toujours facile, Jake Bain aimerait pouvoir aider d'autres athl\u00e8tes \u00e0 s'accepter, quels que soient les probl\u00e8mes auxquels ils font face. En attendant, on peut compter sur lui pour continuer \u00e0 alimenter son compte Instagram, riche en<em> thirst traps<\/em> et messages encourageants pour la communaut\u00e9 LGBT+.<\/p>\n<div id=\"div-gpt-ad-1621434471533-0\" class=\"ad-slot u-justify-content-center u-margin-b-3\" style=\"display:flex\">\n  <script>\n    googletag.cmd.push(function() { googletag.display('div-gpt-ad-1621434471533-0'); });\n  <\/script>\n<\/div>\n<p><em>Cr\u00e9dit photo : Jake Bain via Instagram<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u00c0 18 ans, Jake Bain fut le premier joueur de football en Division I \u00e0 assumer ouvertement son homosexualit\u00e9. Deux ans plus tard, il revient sur son coming out, un tournant d\u00e9cisif dans sa vie. Le coming out peut changer une vie. 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